Don't dump the rubbish in your heart on moments.
May you be treated gently.
yichan6666 In a study of the social networking industry, there is this data: For 30.5% of users, the frequency of posting original content on moments has decreased. Once upon a time, we joyfully recorded the details of a good life in our moments. Gradually, more and more people fade out of the moments and no longer regard the moments as a place to vent their emotions. Because everyone has come to realize that life is their own and has nothing to do with others. Not all emotions. All are suitable to be displayed in moments. Today, the mountain says in "A cup of tea dirt": "in this world, it snows for everyone, and everyone has his own obscurity and cleanness." Nine times out of ten, there are unsatisfactory things in life. There are a lot of emotions, destined to swallow alone, but less than one or two to talk to others. Cai Kangyong once said: "my emotions are never published on moments because I'm afraid of causing trouble to others." Because as soon as you send something unhappy, friends have an obligation to come and comfort you. In the long run, fewer and fewer people will come to comfort you. When people meet, they all have their own stories. For most passers-by, it would be lucky enough if they could just like you, touch your leaves and kiss your stamens. It is an extravagant hope if you greedily hope to uproot the tangled roots of the ground, turn them into the sky, and ask others to like you like you. Everyone is busy, the needle is not stuck on others, and no one will stop to appease your little mood. Not all emotions are suitable for showing in front of people. Digest one's own emotions Is the greatest decency of adults. Sociologist Goffman once said: "Society and life are a big stage, and every member, as a performer, is very concerned about the image he has created in front of the audience." The adult world, even if life is difficult, but also to retain a trace of decency. Just like in the movie "investigation in Chinatown", Qin Feng asks Tang Ren: "Why did you come to Thailand? It's so far from home. " Tang Ren said: "is there anyone who is comfortable in China and willing to come out? There is a reason to stay, there is a reason to come out. The feeling in this world that is worse than everyone's contempt for you is to make everyone sympathize with you. " To hide your fragility and unbearability is the last decency of adults. In adult social life, there is an unspoken rule: most people want you to have a good life, but they don't want you to be much better off than him. Moments is not only a public area on the cloud, but also a large interpersonal training field. This kaleidoscope illuminates the hearts of the people and reflects the human nature. How many people despise you when they see that you are not doing well; when they see that you are doing well, they silently envy and envy you. Relationships are constantly changing, and sweet screenshots at that time can become powerful weapons because of changes in relationships, as well as negative emotions, which is dangerous. So everyone began to form a tacit understanding: you are an adult and you should begin to learn to be alone with your emotions. It's not that I don't want to say it, but I don't dare to say it. Those simple records, want to tell people the mood, after all, become the trade-off after weighing the pros and cons. A lot of life is not easy, do not cry, do not make noise, do not post moments. To deal with negative emotion is not to suppress it, nor to vent it, but to settle it and find out where it comes from before you know where it is going. Trying every means to find a solution to the problem is the greatest decency of adults. Manage your moments well. Is to manage your character. I have seen such a question on Zhihu: "what kind of people are people who don't like to post on moments?" Someone answered: "he must be doing well, because the person he wants to share is probably around. " Others answered: "he must be very mature, because he digests all the emotions by himself. " Pessimists always ask for comfort from the outside world, while optimists know that life will smile back when you smile at it. Those who are really powerful have long been silent and secretly digested all kinds of emotions. Once a hunter went into the mountain to hunt, but the mountain was blocked by heavy snow and could only cross a glacier, which was at risk of cracking. The hunter thought over and over and had no choice but to climb over. After climbing for a long time, he suddenly felt that the glacier was about to crack, so he stopped and complained about the bad weather and his bad luck. Finally, the hunter died. The glacier did not break, he was frozen to death, and the other bank was only one step away from him. "if you are too upset, there will be more restraints later on." It means that the person who complains too much will have many obstacles in his life. In the adult world, everyone collapses and carries a heavy load at the same time. If you can not resolve the negative emotions well, it is very difficult to move forward. Those unspoken words, those unwatched tears, are digested in every step of the road, no one around the night. Then when asked, he smiled and said, "it's all right." Do not regard moments as tree holes or garbage venues, because to manage your circle of friends well is to manage your character. Finally, I would like to give you a word: "to be a person with a big scene, to march towards the big pattern, instead of being humbled, short-sighted, entangled, bullshit and shattered." Don't let your circle of friends be clouded all the time. Use your beautiful eyes to see the bright side of life. Because, life always secretly rewards those optimistic people. The world is bad sometimes. May you be treated gently.
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