I changed my husband's Wechat comments, and 15 minutes later, the most painful consequences came.
You just have to be kind. God has his own consideration.
zhu Xiaoqian0214 I lost my mother in 2016. She had a driving accident. Uncle Han called me. Uncle Han is my stepfather. To my surprise, the day after my mother's funeral, an investigator from the insurance company came to the door. Because three months before my mother's accident, Uncle Han bought my mother a personal accident insurance with a maximum compensation of 2 million. The beneficiary is Uncle Han. And Uncle Han's resume is not clean. He has been in prison before. So not only the people from the insurance company, but also the neighbors are talking about this may be a conspiracy. I have a real father. When he was five years old, he divorced my mother. It's supposed to be an affair, which my mother seldom says. My impression at that time was that my parents quarreled a lot. I locked myself in my room and plugged my ears. My father's house is in Nanning. My mother's education is not high, after the divorce, it is difficult to live alone, so she took me back to my hometown to live with my grandparents. It is a small county-level city in Guangxi. My grandfather has a self-built three-story building. At that time, it was agreed that my father would give alimony, but he didn't give a penny. A year after the divorce, my father remarried. My mother didn't marry Uncle Han until I was 8 years old. In that year, my mother was 32 and Uncle Han 41. Many people say that my mother jumped from one fire pit to another. Because Uncle Han was in prison, he was released only a few years ago. No woman wants to marry him. I was a little scared the first time I met Uncle Han. He is black and strong, with a beard and does not like to laugh. I was on summer vacation when he came to our house. He asked me if I was good at my study and did I listen to my teacher at school? I was so scared I almost cried. It's really fierce. My mother said that if there was any way, she would not marry him. Our hometown is very feudal. A woman divorced and took her child back to her mother's house. There are all kinds of things to say. Grandpa talked about my mother every day at home, so he shouldn't have taken me as an oil bottle. When I was a child, because of these words, I felt very inferior and felt that I was superfluous. My mother and Uncle Han met several times before they got married. There must be no love or anything like that. I remember that before I got married, my mother and I cried that she just didn't want to carry the name of a divorced woman and didn't want to be looked down upon in her mother's house every day. I leaned against her arms and cried with her. However, after my mother married, I found that Uncle Han did not seem to be as scary as he looked. Uncle Han opened a rice noodle shop on our side. Get up early in the morning and work late at night, all in the shop. My mother never had a formal job. After she got married, she helped in the store. I eat breakfast and dinner in the shop. Uncle Han is good at making rice noodles. But there is a little apprentice in the shop, who usually doesn't cook. Usually wearing slippers vest, hanging a big yellow gold chain, directing others to work in the store. But every time I come, Uncle Han will make a bowl of noodles himself. The soup is thick and full of ingredients, and it tastes delicious. Then he would sit down, light a cigarette, and watch me eat. Once, my mother asked him what there was to see about a girl eating. He said happily, "good-looking, happy family, you don't understand." My mother laughed at him and said, I gave birth to it myself, I don't understand? To tell you the truth, my mother hasn't cried since she married Uncle Han. Although Uncle Han is male chauvinist, he is nice to my mother. He said himself that he had had enough in the first half of his life and wanted to live a peaceful life. I was curious about Uncle Han's past, but my mother wouldn't let me inquire about his past. He had a lot of tattoos on his arm, not the ones in the store, but by himself and stained with pen water. Ugly to death. In fact, I heard more or less about Uncle Han's past later. His parents died when he was young and he grew up with his grandfather. When I was in junior high school, my grandfather died of illness. He dropped out of school and mingled with society. Our side of Guangxi, next to the border, used to be very chaotic. The older generation is very secretive and unwilling to talk about it. For a time, the TV station showed a series of border police. Han Shu likes to watch it. My mother teased him. Do you like watching cops or bad guys? Uncle Han said, "I want to thank the people who took me in and saved me from prison." Otherwise, if you look at the one lying on the ground, I'm the only one. Uncle Han was sentenced to prison at the age of 23 for a full 15 years. The best part of life is spent in high walls. After coming out, he opened the powder shop with the help of his old friends. Business is getting better and better, and life is stable. Sometimes, it is difficult to define what is a good man and what is a bad man. My father is a teacher and gentle. But I can't praise him. He used to have a high school degree. Later, when I went to full-time adult education, it was my mother who supported him at work. As a result, he became a teacher and began to cheat. Courtesy, righteousness and shame, he reads more than anyone else, but to be a man, he is far worse than Han Shu in primary school culture. At least Uncle Han pays attention to emotion and righteousness, while he is only selfish and shameless. Two years after my mother married Uncle Han, I was very happy. I experienced a carefree life for the first time. No longer have to put up with parents' quarrels, no need to look at the disdain of relatives. Only once, I was in the fifth grade. When I came back from school, my mother was cleaning the shop and yelling that Uncle Han was crazy or something. Uncle Han sat in the shade of the tree in front of the store, smoking and laughing indifferently. I quietly asked Uncle Han what's wrong. Uncle Han proudly showed me his arm, with new tattoos, a Phoenix word and a Chinese character. That's my mother and my name. Uncle Han must have pricked it himself again, crooked, red and swollen. My mother came out with a rag and said, are you still young? Do such a thing! Your blood sugar is so high, you are not afraid of infection! You're so crazy when you're old. Uncle Han did not retort, took a whiff of his cigarette and sprayed smoke rings at my mother's side. In the end, is he young? I think Uncle Han's behavior in the second grade is really handsome. After all, he tattooed my name, too. It proves that I am also a very important person in his heart. But the more important member of our family will be here soon. It was 2007, and my brother was born. Actually, I was looking forward to my brother's arrival at first. But something has changed in my family since my brother was born. What can I say. I don't want to blame my mother, but the problem is still more or less.It was on her. When I grow up, I can understand when I look back. On the one hand, in my previous marriage, I was bullied by my mother-in-law because I was born a girl. On the other hand, she and Uncle Han had had the baby for many years and didn't get pregnant until they were almost 40 years old. So she was so precious to her brother that her whole temperament changed greatly. Especially to me. I kindly helped my brother warm the milk. When it was a little hot, my mother said that I had a bad heart and wanted to burn my brother to death. My brother's little hand was funny, so I bit it gently. She made a fuss and said I was going to hurt my brother. I was in high school at that time. Too many such little things have changed me gradually. In the past, that kind of inferiority complex came back. I never dare to touch my brother again. I went to the store every day after school. I didn't want to go home. I was bored, and my academic performance plummeted. After the mid-term exam, I was called parents. Uncle Han went there. Come back and tell me, thanks to me, if your mother is still furious. I said, my mother will not be angry, she does not remember me. Uncle Han can't talk or talk to each other. He thought for a moment and pulled out a picture from his mobile phone to show me. 'This is the only condition your mother offered to marry me,'he said. See for yourself. In the photo is a note that says, I, Han Baocheng, promise that after marriage, Yang Jinfeng's daughter Yao Coco will get married in the future, and how much bride price the husband will give and how much dowry I will give. At a glance, it was written by Uncle Han, which was crooked and pressed a red handprint. Uncle Han said, your mother told me that if you go to school, she can afford it, but it is not necessary to get married. So let me set up such a document. Cops, your mom took it. I only have pictures. I was silent. The face is cold, but the heart feels the temperature. I was 8 years old at that time. My mother thought of the day when I got married. She didn't make a single request about her own marriage, just to give me a future. No matter how much I fool around, I understand my mother's concern for me. Uncle Han said, it is not easy for your mother to give birth at such an old age. You are more considerate and considerate of her, at least how much she loves you for more than ten years, your brother can't compare. It was said that Uncle Han could not enlighten people, but he said a total of two words, and every sentence poked me. In the later days, although I still avoided my mother, I didn't blame her so much. At that time, I also specialized on the Internet to find out why pregnant women lost their temper and so on. Then I found out that my mother may have postpartum depression. I asked Uncle Han to take my mother to have a look. Uncle Han disagreed and said I was fooling around. Their generation, who regard psychological problems as mental illness, are a bit taboo about medical treatment. But as my brother grew up, my mother gradually got better. I repeated the college entrance examination for a year. After all, my mother has a certain influence on my study. But then my mom refused to admit it. He said he didn't remember treating me like that, and he didn't say I was going to hurt my brother or anything. I was furious. If my mother were here, Uncle Han would help my mother, saying that I was delusional and didn't study hard to blame others. If my mother is not here, Uncle Han will say that I am right and tell me to follow my mother and not to make her angry. I said him, this is a scumbag behavior. He was amused by me, saying that a scumbag is a scumbag, as long as you and your mother are happy. In 2011, I was admitted to Nanning Agricultural University. Because in Nanning, I stopped by to see my father. I saw him for the first time in so many years. He was so scared that he thought I was here to ask for money and dared not say more about it. I also met his current wife, a former mistress. They have another son. I can see that I can control him to death. I don't know why he abandoned my mother and found such a powerful woman to take care of him. When I left, I said, Thank you for leaving my mother. My stepfather was nice to her and to me. If we follow you, our life will be over. My dad didn't realize it, and he said, it should be. It was only later that I found out that my words did not taste right. I wanted to be angry, but I had already left. During National Day holiday, I ran home and told my mother. My mother said that I was not sensible, and that I should leave a way back for myself. Let you go to see your father, is to let you get in touch, there will be a care in the future. It's not for you to scold him. While Uncle Han was next to him, smoking his little cigarette and saying, "Yes, it's the girl I raised. Do you eat powder?" Uncle will make it for you. My mother lost her temper because of us. During the four years of college, all the students fell in love. I didn't. One is that he doesn't meet the right one, and the other is that he always feels like he can't grow up, so he likes to go home. Talk to my mother, bully my brother, and let Uncle Han cook noodles for me every day. My mom says I'm the boss of the family. I want to take the postgraduate entrance examination for my senior year. My mother said, almost come on, and where's your brother? Han Shu agreed, "your mother is right. Just take the exam and set an example for your brother." I burst out laughing. In order to set an example for my brother, I fought hard for a year and succeeded in taking the postgraduate entrance examination. It was also this year that I met my destiny. His name is Jin Yan. He's from the same city as me. I doubt we've met on the road before. Originally, several people formed a team to prepare for the exam, but learn to learn, just the two of us. He said, this is called the book has its own beauty such as jade. In the past, when I wrote a composition, I always liked to use "when God closes a door, he opens a window." Later, I realized that it was the human being who got it backwards. God should open a window for you and close a door. In 2016, I never want to think about that year. That day, Jin Yan and I were reading in the classroom. Tired of reading, we began to play with our mobile phones. Although we haven't been in love for a long time, we have a good relationship. I have already met my parents, and they are all quite satisfied. I think Jin Yan and I will last a lifetime. So I tirelessly asked him to comment my Wechat as "wife" and I said his comment as "husband". Just as I was revising the notes, my mother called. But I was not in the mood to answer it at that time, so I pressed it off and wanted to dial back later. Who would have thought that 15 minutes later, Uncle Han called. He said my mother was in a car accident and was dying. I took a taxi back. My mother was on her deathbed when she got to the hospital. As soon as I came in, Uncle Han shouted, your girl is here. My mother slowly opened her eyes. She was speechless, so she hooked me with her finger and looked at Uncle Han. When I saw Han Shu crying for the first time, big tears fell down. Uncle Han saidOh, don't worry. This is my daughter. My mother closed her eyes and never opened them again. My mother has been admitted to the car book for a long time and seldom drives. Uncle Han was not feeling well that day. On a whim, she drove herself to go shopping. There was an accident.
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