"I like relationships where I'm not tired."
Refuse to socialize ineffectively, stay away from negative emotions, and save time and cost.
small tea night reading Vipyq ninety-five My cousin told me that she had a quarrel with her friend the other day. The cause of the quarrel is trivial, but it involves a deeper level, that is, they have always had contradictions and misunderstandings in getting along with each other, but neither of them has been through a direct communication. So at the end of the quarrel, the other party felt that she had been tolerant and accommodating, and her cousin also felt that she had been tolerant and understanding in this friendship and broke up in discord. After a common friend knew about this, he came to persuade his cousin to take the initiative to be soft with each other. With such a good friend, why bother with a little thing? But my cousin said, "I think I was really nice to her, but in the end, my kindness became flattering and pandering, and my dedication and concern became worthless in her view." I asked, "what do you want to do with this?" "I have deleted her Wechat," she said. " I was surprised, so straightforward? My cousin tilted her lips and smiled bitterly and said, "otherwise, what else can we do? if we have to get separated sooner or later, we are not destined to be the same person." That's reasonable. I gave her a favor in my heart. In fact, when a relationship comes to an end, it makes no sense to worry about who is right and who is wrong. Whether it's friendship or love, or work or life, if you feel exhausted and always have to make a lot of effort and energy to maintain it, it is destined to not last. After all, a twisted melon is not sweet, and a broken mirror is hard to get back together. In the world, in addition to more and more believe that everything will pass, but also more and more understand that getting along with people has always been a difficult thing. As the lyrics say, "falling in love is not so easy. Everyone has his own temper." The so-called empathy is often nothing more than seeing the smoke that burns and drifting, but the only one who really understands the pain of being burned by fire is himself. After all, we all love ourselves more than we love others. In the movie Twelve Nights, Jeannie and the hero Alan meet in the same car. They fall in love at first sight and soon fall in love. At the beginning, they saw each other every day and dated every day, but after a long time together, the boys began to get bored and felt that the girls were too much and too tight, making them uncomfortable. He began to struggle and wanted to let go. But the girl is reluctant to give up, she feels that she has done everything for each other. Her boyfriend didn't like the dress she wore at the event, so she changed into an all-black dress wrapped from head to toe. When her boyfriend was working overtime at night, she took the subway from where she lived and changed to three or four buses all the way to see him. Her boyfriend's computer broke down, so she went to the repair shop all night to ask someone to open the door and fix it. Her boyfriend is going on a business trip, and she even prepares a change of clothes and underwear for each other in advance. But everything she does is superfluous and useless in the eyes of boys. The night they broke up, they quarreled and Jeannine cried and asked, "Why don't you ever appreciate what I've done for you?" Alan said, "I didn't ask you to do this for me. Why do you do so many things for me?" Both of them said they were too hard and tired, so they broke up at last. If you look at the matter of love, it is always contradictory. Some people fall in love, some drive to see the sea at night, some meet again after a long separation, and some never communicate with each other since then. What a relationship fears most is not that love disappears quickly after the freshness and passion fade, but that two people who originally love each other, under the same roof, are more and more speechless, love fades, and happiness is gone. One tries his best to give and please, as low as the dust, while the other turns a blind eye, and may even feel resentful and disgusted. If love is too tired, there is no sin to say goodbye in time. People come and go is the norm, together separated, do not be too difficult to let go. All relationships, together is to be happy, separate, also. I have heard such a passage saying: "this is the way life is. People see people, people change people. If you really mean it, I will change it. If you can't change it, you will change your heart." Maybe before, maybe now, in the face of some people you don't like and unsatisfactory things, you will still choose to be silent and patient, give in, and even in some relationships, you will be willing to wronge yourself and hope that the other party will be happy. But I want to tell you, ah, only when you are happy, your world is sunny, and you can meet more beautiful things in life, meet the people you like, what you expect, otherwise, everything will not go well. We will all come to understand that giving in blindly will never lead to peaceful coexistence, but will only make the bottom line retreat and make us more humble. So stay away from the people who make you uncomfortable and give up the things that make you unhappy. You grow red beans in the universe, so why please others and reassure them? Refuse to socialize ineffectively, stay away from negative emotions, and save time and cost. For the rest of my life, forget the relationship that is too tired and live a comfortable life with a simple state of mind and harmony. Okay?
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