If a family lays down these seven rules, the child will be successful.
A family with rules and love is the blessing of a child's life.
broadcast week Zhou Lang read Audio frequency It is often said that educating children is like a spiritual practice. However, more and more parents have come into a misunderstanding, interfering too much in their children's learning and indulging in their own habits. Only pay attention to "teaching", but ignore "raise". Unexpectedly, the result is the lack of children's awareness of rules, and this is often the beginning of a family failure. Parents have an unshirkable responsibility for their children's education. There was a mother who laid down these seven rules for her child. It is worth learning from all parents to help children develop good habits and excellent qualities. 01 Without permission Don't take other people's things indiscriminately. This is breeding. Some time ago, there was a hot topic on Weibo. Why do young people hate visitors at home? The answer below is: You have experienced the despair of a client's design that took half a month to complete, torn or even doodled by children brought by relatives. Have you ever experienced the collapse of scrapping when a bear kid comes to your house and destroys your phone, tablet, or lipstick on the spot? None of us want our children to be labeled as "uneducated", but have you ever thought about it: Even if your child is too self-willed and arrogant, few people will remind you that your child is impolite and ill-bred. They will only talk behind their back that their parents will not teach, and then watch your children go away on the road of being uneducated and never return until they do something even worse. It is really good for the children. They do not want their children to be criticized and hated behind their backs. Parents should set good rules for their children from an early age. Don't take other people's things without permission; don't throw rubbish on the ground; don't make noise in public places; don't make noise in public. The best education is not a high score, but an education engraved into the bones. And in one detail after another, it is not the embodiment of parental self-cultivation. 02 Never swear. Don't do any indecent behavior, it's a quality. Children with quality will be liked and respected wherever they go. However, in recent years, there has been an endless stream of news exposing children's literacy problems. In an amusement park, a boy cut in line in a game project, was discouraged by the staff, but insulted each other: "do not line up, smelly old ladies." While the boy's parents were indifferent and just ordered People at the scene deleted the video, saying it "violated the portrait right". Also at this amusement park, an 8-year-old boy met a young girl's ass. Instead of apologizing, the boy's mother beat and scolded the young girl: "what happened to my son touching your ass? Your ass has never been touched! " Children and parents who are full of foul language and have no quality are really ugly. Some psychologists say: in order to improve the quality of children, we must first improve the quality of parents. Therefore, this family rule is more likely to be written to parents. A child is like a sapling, and the family environment is the watering water. As parents, they have the responsibility and compulsory education for their children to abide by the basic rules of life. But at the same time, parents also need to behave cleanly and speak appropriately in order to nourish children with physical and mental health. 03 Meet elders and teachers Be sure to say hello politely first. It's etiquette. We have always been known as the "land of etiquette". The Analects of Confucius says: "if you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand." Xunzi said: "people are rude, things are rude, and the country is rude and restless." Even now, with the continuous change of culture and the ever-changing times, etiquette civilization is still worth learning and inheriting by our children. It is the most basic courtesy to say hello to acquaintances first. But most of the time, in order to prove that they are qualified parents, parents will only urge and force their children to say hello to their uncles and aunts. When meeting an introverted and sensitive child, he shrank back with a pursed mouth, but did not say that the parents were so humiliated that they reprimanded the child on the spot. Of course we should teach children to be polite, but politeness is not for others. True politeness is sincere from the heart, not a mere formality. But this requires parents to patiently guide and cultivate, but also to set an example for their children. Parents should first be polite to others, and when their children are nurtured by osmosis, they will naturally learn to be modest and polite and kind to others. 04 When communicating with others Don't interrupt. It's a sign of respect. It is often said that a child who can talk wins as soon as he opens his mouth. Indeed, people tend to prefer children who are generous, lively and cheerful, and dare to express themselves confidently. However, this also requires separate occasions. Some children are used to interrupting the teacher's speech in class. Before the teacher has finished, he can't wait to stand up and answer. Some children like to interrupt when adults are talking, insisting that others play with them in a different way. …… This is a very bad experience for anyone. No matter at any age, interrupting others casually is an act of low EQ and disrespect for others. Therefore, when children have this kind of behavior, parents should remember to tell their children: When communicating with others, do not interrupt others. Reminding children to change the way they speak and teaching them to listen is actually teaching them to respect others. Speaking appropriately is the foundation for children to gain a foothold in society in the future. Only a child who knows how to respect others can go wider and wider on the road of life. 05 Be good at making mistakes for yourself And responsible for the wrong behavior, this is the responsibility Every child does something wrong, but every parent handles it in a very different way. There was a little boy who was once punished by his father for bullying his classmates and was not allowed to take the school bus or run to school for a week. Throughout the week, the child ran in front of him, while his father followed him, rain or shine. Later, after this incident, the child deeply realized two points: "first, people have to pay for their mistakes; second, my father will not love me because I have made mistakes." I've seen a lot of parents, their children constantly wiping their buttocks when they do something wrong. When the child grew up, the mistake became more serious, and he couldn't bear it any longer before it was too late to repent. In fact, it is not terrible to do something wrong, it is the parents who are terrible.Cover up the mistake, but the child will not correct it. Every mistake is actually a good time for children to learn to take responsibility. Expressing your responsibility with practical actions and making others feel sorry is more effective than ten thousand words of "I'm sorry". 06 Things you've used, books you've read. It's a habit to put it all back in place. An educator once said: "if you form a good habit, you can't enjoy the interest on it for the rest of your life; if you form a bad habit, you won't be able to pay off its debts for the rest of your life." The power of habit is strong. Big, good habits can drive children to make positive changes and benefit for the rest of their lives. However, habit formation does not happen overnight, and parents need to supervise and repeat their children's behavior from an early age. Even if it is such a small thing to put the used things and read books back in place. It can also help children better establish a sense of rules and form a sense of order in the process of forming habits. To help children form habits, in the final analysis, is to help children find the right path and walk steadily and far on the road of life. Therefore, do not miss the best opportunity for education. Children who grow up in good habits are bound to have a greater sense of mission and are more likely to be favored by others in interpersonal communication. 07 Have at least one hobby of sports Exercise is indispensable. It's healthy. We all know that exercise is very important. A sound mind resides in a healthy body. But now most of the children, affected by the environment and their parents, are busy with their studies and ignore sports. Last year, there was a related study: The main indicators of physical health of children and adolescents have declined for many years in a row, such as small glasses, small fat, small sugar people and so on. Just imagine that a child who should be full of vigor and vitality is physically weak and prone to illness at a young age. How can their shoulders withstand the test of wind and rain in the future? Children need not only mental enrichment, but also physical enrichment. The significance of exercise is not only to bring children a healthy body, but also to cultivate the quality of unity, self-confidence and perseverance in the process. And psychological studies have also found that all children's intellectual and psychological development are actually based on physical development. Only in good health can we have the ability to withstand the wind and rain and live this life calmly. ▽ Some people say that children's education is actually about parents' foresight and attitude towards life. The children raised by different parents are very different. But the only thing that is certain is that the children raised by families with rules will not be bad. As it says in rules and Love: Growing up in love without rules, the child loses gratitude. Growing up without love, children learn to feel inferior. Growing up with no rules and no love, the child loses awe Growing up with rules and love, children learn humility and self-confidence. A family with rules and love is the blessing of a child's life. Parents please collect these seven family rules for their children.
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