If you can control your emotions, you can control your life.

someone once said that a man who can control his emotions is greater than a general who can take down a city. Once a person is swayed by emotion, he will lose his mind. We are often manipulated by emotions, but do not realize that your emotions hide your life and foreshadow your future. The angrier you are, the more hurtful you are to speak. Confucius said, "if you do not vent your anger, you will not make mistakes." When you are angry, don't vent your anger on others; when you don't like it, don't lose your temper with others. People tend to say extremely hurtful words when they are angry. Sometimes it's just to vent simply, or to be happy in your heart. But a relationship is going to break, and a relationship is about to break, often in a hurtful word. Xunzi's Honor and disgrace once mentioned: "speaking well with others is warmer than cloth; hurting people with words is deeper than spear halberd." Words of kindness are warmer than cloth, and words of anger are more hurtful than swords and spears. Angry words, with incomparably great energy, like a sharp dagger into the heart. As we all know in the "thumbtack Story", the words when angry are like thumbtacks on the wall. Even if they are pulled out afterwards, the scars still exist. When you are alive, don't let your emotions manipulate you, don't let your anger go to your senses, and don't make irreparable mistakes because of what you say in a moment of anger. Please keep silent when you are angry As the saying goes, "speech is silver, silence is gold." Silence is not only a choice, a way, but also a kind of wisdom to look foolish. In the face of the accusations and criticisms of others, many people feel that it is a loss of face not to fight back, but they do not realize that this is precisely a sign of wisdom. The angrier you are, the more you should be rational; the angrier you are, the more you should remain silent. To remain silent is not to escape, but to settle down to think better. Keeping silent is not cowardice, but because we care about each other's friendship. As the saying goes, "impulse is the devil", and the consequences of anger cannot be estimated. When you are angry, let it go, wait a minute, be quiet. If the emotion is out of control, anger will not solve the problem, but will destroy the image, destroy the character, and even affect your physical and mental health. To be a man, tolerance is a virtue, magnanimity is a blessing. Endure for a while, you can reap peace of mind; take a step back, but the sea is a hundred rivers. When angry, control your emotions and keep silent, you can't help but be a wise man in life. If you can control your emotions, you can control your life. Xunzi said, "anger is nothing but snatch, but joy is not enough." Don't punish others for anger or reward others for being happy. When you are alive, you must know how to control your emotions. Only by controlling your emotions can you control other things. The so-called EQ is a person's ability to control emotions. As the saying goes, "if you are wise, you will be wise, and if you are wise, you will succeed." If a person is unable to control his emotions, no matter how powerful he is, it is futile. When people are angry, their inner emotions fluctuate greatly. At this time, their IQ is negative, and it is easy to lose themselves. Only peace of mind can produce wisdom, and wisdom can create miracles. Controlling our emotions is not only our wisdom in dealing with others, but also the best way to maintain good health. People often say that anger hurts the body, for the growth of emotions, we can not allow it to indulge, but learn how to control it. Learn to control emotions in order to gain trust; learn to control emotions, the family can be happy; learn to control emotions, good luck will come! If you can control your emotions, you can control your life! To control life and start a good life.

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