Life is a passer-by, so why be so persistent?
Don't mess with the present, make it simple, and love life.
dashu259 Most of the time, we will worry about all kinds of things, the past and the future. But in fact, life is a passer-by, there is no need to be too persistent. Let go of the past Do not cling to the past The past does not look back, everything is the best arrangement. Lloyd George has a habit of closing the door behind him. Once he was walking in the yard with his friends. He also passed a door and closed it. The friend asked him, "do you think it is necessary to close these doors?" Lloyd George said: "of course it is. Because it's something you have to do in a lifetime. When you close the door, leave the past behind, whether it's a good achievement or a frustrating mistake, and then you can start all over again. " Throw away your troubles, throw away excess clutter, and disconnect from unnecessary people. My friend Xiaolin once experienced a heart-wrenching relationship, when she talked to her boyfriend for five years, and had already recognized him, but found that he was having an affair. She was so depressed at that time that she couldn't get up the spirit to do anything. But later, after she figured it out, she cheered up and worked hard and lived a serious life. She bought a house and lived the life she wanted. In a work project, she met her current boyfriend, talented and motivated, and considerate and dedicated to her. "if he hadn't left me, my life might not have been as wonderful as it is now, and I wouldn't have met better people," she said. " Recently, when she heard that her ex-boyfriend was going to get married, she blessed him silently in her heart. Passing by is wonderful, leaving behind happiness. Many persistent things, after the past and then look back, is not "fleeting". If you look down on it, there will be no trouble in your heart; if you see through, the world will be simple. It will be better to let go of the past and move on. The loss of self-confidence and imagination for the future is really the torture of the cycle of the sun and the moon. Prosperity will eventually come to an end, but going back to basics is beauty. Cherish the present Love yourself well. There is an aunt in the neighbor's family who divorced her husband more than ten years ago. She raised the children on her own, all on her own. Now that the children have grown up, they seldom go home. Living alone, in the eyes of outsiders, she is very lonely, but she does not feel it. In fact, she goes everywhere to play every day, those close to home go by bus, and when she travels far away, she asks several sisters to go out together. I usually go to the mall and buy some nice clothes to dress myself up. After dinner, I went for a walk in the nearby park and blew the evening breeze. Sometimes I will call my sisters to play mahjong at home and cook together when I am tired of playing mahjong. These days, it is very pleasant for her. Someone asked her, "Don't you feel bored and lonely by yourself?" "No," she said. "my life is for myself. I enjoy it every day, be happy, and do whatever I want. It doesn't hurt to spend money. " Finding something happy to do and simplifying things will make life interesting. Cherish the moment and love yourself. Enjoy life, embrace the present, and give yourself some time to relax. There is a poem in Wang Wei's "Farewell to the South": "from time to time, I sit and watch the ever-changing clouds when the water is poor." There are too many troubles in the world, and only the present is the most important. The rest of life is still long, do not panic, the future life, are hidden in our present every day, now is the future. A happy and simple life is worth our experience. Life is long, happy or unhappy is a lifetime, why not make yourself happy? Leave the unpleasant to the past and put the sunshine into the present. Don't let bygones be bygones, just laugh for the rest of your life. Not trapped in the heart Don't mess with love. Mr. Inamori said: "facing difficulties and adversity with optimism is the iron rule of success in life." I heard a story about a man who was troubled by the stress of life and wanted to find a solution, so he found a wise man. The wise man did not answer his question directly, but gave him a basket and asked him to pick up the stones on the road as he walked. The man picked up all kinds of stones as he walked. But as he walked, the stone on his body became heavier and heavier, making it difficult for him to move, and finally fell to the ground tired. The wise man told him: in fact, as long as you pour out the stones in the basket, you can carry it light. The same is true of life. If you keep everything on your mind and struggle with everything, then life will crush you. If you know how to break up and let go of unimportant people and things, life will be easier and easier. May you sum up and digest the troubles you encounter, so that you will not be distressed in the days to come. There is nothing in the world to worry about. Xi Xi was exhausted by all kinds of things in life for a while. When a newcomer goes wrong, the simplest thing goes wrong. Colleagues are secretly calculating her, so that she can not step down in front of the leader. The children in the family are disobedient and often go home annoying. She was at a loss when she had to pay off the house loan and the car loan. She struggles with all kinds of little things every day, such as where she doesn't do well, why her life is so hard, why she always has to face all kinds of trifles, and so on. She began to adjust herself, give herself a day off, go for a walk in the countryside, feel the power of nature, look at the paintings in the pavilion, and then sit on the park bench in a daze and blow. Slowly, she felt that time slowed down and things in life became less painful and troublesome. In fact, there are no fewer things in life, but the mentality in the face of things has changed. As long as you keep your mind at ease and solve things the same way, the most difficult things will pass. "Ten deadly sins" said: "the world is troubled, countless troubles, there are only three reasons, can not see through, can not let go." May you not be trapped in your heart, not confused with your feelings, not afraid of the future, not thinking about the past. Gains and losses go with fate, and people with a broad heart are at peace. Life is a passer-by, why be too persistent. Let go of the past and make peace with yourself. May you not cling to the past, simply follow your heart and have no worries Don't worry about old friends, let bygones be bygones, and love and hate at will. Don't mess with the present, make it simple, and love life.
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