"people who post on moments have never seen the world."

simple psychology "people who have never seen the world will post on moments at the slightest moment." Do you agree with this view? Before I write this article, I would like to tell the story of a friend around me. This friend of mine, who usually likes to record her life in her moments, has recently closed her moments. She said that she once sent a photo to share her mood, but everyone's attention was all on her neck. Some people said that you always wear this platinum necklace to show off. Some people said that the necklace was blinded. Please don't wear it. Even one of our mutual friends asked me privately that she often posted that valuable necklace in her moments. Could it be that she was kept by some tuhao and dared not take it off? Unexpectedly, the necklace was left to her when her grandmother died. Whenever I miss my grandmother, or go through something special, she will take pictures as a souvenir. Mr. Lu Xun said that the joys and sorrows of human beings are not the same. I just think they are noisy. The world in your eyes is sometimes not what you think it is. The greatest malice of a person is to impose his own understanding on others and always think that he is right. In the picture, this is a mask of Einstein's face. Is this face concave or protruding? You'd say it's protruding. Yes, it looks protruding. The following picture is a side view of the mask. In this way, it turned out to be a concave face. In fact, this is an example mentioned in a BBC program. Why does looking at the first picture give you the wrong impression? Cognitive scientists explain that since we have never seen a concave face, we cannot form an image of a concave face in our mind. Therefore, it is easy to judge a person's whole picture by only one side, but it is also very unfair. By the same token, many things, you can see only the tip of the iceberg, you can not empathize, because you have never experienced, your so-called truth is just what you think. But I don't know since when, many people are used to guessing things by their own thoughts. Previously, a photo of a female customs staff wearing a black halter skirt handling business at the customs administrative examination and approval window circulated on the Internet. You don't wear overalls to work? Such a casual style, let netizens satirize: "improve the window work style?" Customs is really walking on the prostate line. Netizens think that the staff member is very unprofessional and that it is unsightly to dress up for office work like that. However, what we do not know is that she actually asked for leave in advance that day. When she changed into casual clothes and was ready to leave, someone happened to be here to run errands. In order not to delay the other party, she postponed her departure and accepted the business temporarily. It was originally a warm-hearted act to help others, but it was photographed and posted online to be abused. Psychologically, there is a "projection effect": Refers to people often have an illusion, accustomed to what they think and see as the standard, in order to analyze and judge others, and think that the other person is the same. This kind of phenomenon is very terrible. Remember that Dr. Ann who committed suicide. Dr. Ann and his wife quarreled with two boys in the pool. The family of the boy went to Dr. an's unit and asked the unit to fire Dr. an. After that, a video with no cause and effect and only partial facts, "suspected that his wife was hit and the man beat a child in the swimming pool" went viral online, setting off a public opinion violence. If the needle doesn't pierce you, you never know how painful it is for others. Doctor an was subjected to a cyber manhunt, and a few days later she committed suicide under pressure. Those keyboard warriors, have you ever thought that when you criticize the innocent without knowing the truth and criticize the innocent, it may be the last straw to crush the innocent? Prejudices in people's hearts are like a mountain that is difficult to move. Most of the time, the person we spread by word of mouth may not be the real Ta, but the Ta we imagined. The miser you see as saving every expense may be because he sent all his savings home The material girl who drives a BMW with a LV bag in your mouth often sacrifices her weekend time and works hard. What you think is a cold-spoken boss, but in times of crisis, a sense of justice is particularly human. And vice versa. The person who is always kind to you may also be the bad guy waiting for the opportunity. Similarly, posting selfies on moments must be narcissistic personality, and sending travel photos must be pretending to be forced? Sometimes you want to post about the difficulties of life on moments, but you are accused of being hypocritical, online, and poor stress resistance. "Yes, who doesn't have a hard life? a lot of things are not worth mentioning." The saddest thing is that no one can understand how you feel. Both happiness and sadness of modern people need an outlet. The original intention of posting moments is to record life and share feelings. In fact, showing a shiny certificate is the result of a year of hard work; the big-brand cosmetics bought by choppers on Singles' Day are trophies for working overtime through countless all-nighters. So, you can't deny the special significance of these results to people who post on moments. While some people rigidly judge it as showing off, but forget that it is more and more complete and real him. I thought of a story: A girl put the newly bought iPhone on the piano. When her classmate saw it, she said, "what a fake!" Put your phone in such a conspicuous position. The girl smiled and said: I play 800000 piano, but you only see a 7,000 yuan mobile phone. The girl's mother said to her daughter: you live in a 50 million villa, but all you see is the piano. The girl's father said to her mother, "you have a husband worth 1 billion to accompany you, but all you see is a broken villa." As the saying goes, the realm of vision determines the realm. The more unfamiliar people are, the more self-centered they are, and the narrower their horizons are. In fact, the more things a person doesn't like, the smaller his pattern will be. When you come into contact with all kinds of people and see more and more of the world, you will realize that many people who use luxury goods are not showing off. People who drive luxury cars and live in luxury houses are not showing off their wealth, and showing kindness and love and promotion are just sharing joy. That is their most normal life on weekdays. We don't need to talk about it. We can block it if we don't like it. I also like to post on moments. Fortunately, no matter what I send, my friends can understand it and occasionally make fun of it. I cherish this kindness and tolerance, and often give likes to their moments. In my opinion, there is only one reason for all prejudices between people: these things do not happen to themselves. What may be insignificant in your eyes has a different meaning in other people's world. You have not experienced other people's lives, so you are not qualified to measure other people's lives by your own standards. I agree with this passage: "when you approach the Potala Palace and see the nearest blue sky and the whitest Hada, you will have different views on life and death. If you travel around the Seville Cathedral, you won't think that if you lose an ex-boyfriend, you will lose the whole world. If you live in Washington for a few months, there will be no more narrow anti-American sentiment or fanatical Western worship. " Of course, all this is not to show a sense of superiority in the next chat, but to be leisurely, humble and arrogant, inclusive of the diversity of all things in the world, but to make a fuss. "looking at your Wechat profile picture, I know you are very low." "if you carry a designer bag, you will know that you like to show off." "if you work late into the night, you will know that you love money." "if you are divorced, you will know that you are ignoring your family." . In the future, I don't want to hear any more of these childish remarks in black and white. Do not judge others at will, do not spread rumors, is a person's deep-rooted self-cultivation. I hope you and I can respect each other, look at people without tinted glasses, and dare to tear off the labels easily affixed by others and be ourselves bravely. :

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