The bigger the pattern, the better the wisdom of "hiding".

read at ten o'clock Rao Xueman once said: "never tell your secret to anyone, if you really take it as a secret." Everyone has something hidden in their hearts, and most of the time they think they are familiar with others, and as soon as they get out of the way, they spread all over every ear. People who are close to each other can share and miss each other, but there should be some boundaries for intimacy. These three secrets, don't say it easily, are not good for you. The money is not exposed. In all relationships in the world, you have to talk about money, but you don't have to talk to others about your money. Making money and spending money, patience or enjoyment are all your personal business. Some netizens went to pick up the express delivery, and their friends were watching all the time. When they saw the bargains she bought on Taobao, they said, "Rich people." Just in the past, my friend began to cry again: "I haven't bought anything for a long time", and where did I spend my money? one by one, I was about to take out the shopping receipt. My daughter had to eat fruit yesterday and spent a lot of money. It was very expensive to sign up for a training course. When she came back, she was afraid that it would be unsafe for the child to walk alone, so she had to pay for a taxi. Children pick their mouths, not even imported snacks. The shopping mall bought several pieces of underwear and shoes at a discount, which cost a lot of money. I eat out every day, not counting the money, and those families are getting tired of eating. There is no such condition in the netizens' home, and the grievances of friends crying about poverty sound more annoying than showing off their wealth. Between people, there is not so much empathy, you have more money and less money, whether you are rich or poor, it only has to do with yourself. All the money on the table will be trouble in the future. In May this year, the home of Ms. Chen on Putian in Fujian Province was burglarized. The thief was not only her best friend, but also her best friend. Both of them are married wives from other villages, and they have a lot in common. They are dozens of meters away from home, and they often walk around each other. Ms. Chen treats her as one of her own, and there is no taboo about how rich her family is, what she has saved, and even where the keys to the locker are revealed. Her best friend secretly envied and once secretly opened the drawer while she was a guest at her house. There were more than 100000 pieces of gold and cash in it. Ms. Chen only called the police a month later. She didn't want to steal anything. It was the person she trusted 100%. Human nature can not stand the test, should not say too much, disappointment begins. The boundaries between friends, not only rely on the bottom line of others, remember to be careful, do not let you have no scruples of trust, as a touchstone of friendship. No matter how close your friends are, no matter whether you are rich or not, keep your distance and don't talk about money. Money is not exposed, people and feelings, do not test. Anger is not exposed. I've seen a question: "how to face my colleagues complaining about my leader and keep asking me for my opinion on this matter?" The interrogator was a small worker, and his leader had just returned from a business trip and scolded a colleague who was very good with him to pieces. Colleagues just make a small mistake, the responsibility still lies with others, feel wronged, want to let him comment on reason. But he really didn't want to say much. He can't afford to gamble if he speaks ill of the leader and is bitten back again. Someone in the comment area replied: "you did the right thing, usually one laugh, two listens, three escapes." Spreading bad words from one person to another is the easiest thing to promote feelings. Share a few words and immediately become an alliance. But good words can not be spread far, bad words spread thousands of miles, one day, you will become a villain in other people's mouth, angry words and complaints that have been said in your mouth have become a handle on others. Truly mature people have learned to control their emotions. Host Zhang Da once posted on moments, saying that it was not easy for him, how much he had been wronged, and he had a long story. Yang Mi, as a good friend, only answered a question mark. When she mentioned it again, Yang Mi said something meaningful: If you look down, everyone is working very hard. Don't you think it's hard for people who deliver food these days? Isn't it hard for the staff to squat here today? Isn't it hard for a half-day manuscript? So why do you want others to understand your hard work, because everyone works hard. Yang Mi, who has always been decisive, seldom lost her temper with anyone. She recorded the show with cream on her face and kept smiling. Being mocked that she can't sing, she can blacken herself. When she saw the headline party comments, she only thought it was funny, how could she still say so. Even if it is a big thing, Yang Mi will ask herself, one night, or two nights, to let it go. Anger and grievance don't feel good only when you say it. Digesting alone, calming emotions, is a kind of ability. Adult life, say cruel is also cruel, say reality is also realistic, the more you want to be happy for a moment, the more bad things continue. But when you learn to adjust yourself, annoying people and annoying things will pass. Don't show your anger, mood and sense of security are all yours. The ability is not exposed. Knowing people is like opening gifts, packing them with hype, opening them with no content, you can only look more and more like a joke. When you put all your skills on the table, you inadvertently become a clown. In the fascinating offer, the intern Wang Huan, who graduated from Stanford with good ability, has passed the judicial examination and English Grade 8, but has been frequently criticized by people. He chatted with others and never left Stanford for three words. The cup at hand, the lanyard of the work plate, and the clothes you wear are all school logos. When you cooperate with your teammates, you always want to be superior. Once he made a mistake in judicial common sense, it was no big deal. He had to say to each other, "maybe we didn't go to the same law school." High achiever's filter was shattered, and the instructor began to re-evaluate him. Several academic qualifications were not as good as his, but they began to come to the fore. Show off your talent, show off your shrewdness, just beat around the bush and laugh at the stupidity and incompetence of others. People have closeness and closeness, there are true and false, some people appreciate your ability, some people are jealous of your brilliance, but no one likes to see you above. Don't give others a bad look at your hard-earned achievements. Excellence is the capital to gain a foothold, and hiding is the real wisdom. As a predecessor in the literary world, Ba Jin's novels "Home", "Spring" and "Autumn" have become classics. He has published and translated numerous works, and is regarded as one of the most influential writers since the May 4th Movement. But at every meeting of literary celebrities, he is the most inconspicuous. When others talked so much, he huddled in the corner and had to come out to say something, just a word or two. He donated his treasured books and manuscripts to the Literature Museum. He donated 560000 yuan to Project Hope in Shanghai alone, and refused to let the media.Sports newspaper, also do not say to others. My son Fudan graduated and worked in the Literature and History Office of the Chinese people's political Consultative Conference in Shanghai. For more than 20 years, almost no one knew about the family relationship. Do not show, do not make public, accumulate is the real ability. Ba Jin often said, "be an ordinary person among all living beings." Stoop down, hide some edge, the efforts paid, different from the ability of people, will become a surprise in the future. It is ordinary in itself, so be an ordinary person and live a steady life. Superior to others, but also can be an ordinary person, talent than status, virtue than fame, do not dare to despise, no one does not admire. Without revealing their skills, respect and kindness, they were all brought in. Gibran has a saying: If you reveal the secret to the wind, you should not blame the wind for revealing the secret to the forest. Don't tell your friends about the money you don't want the wicked to know. Anger you don't want others to see, don't show it to the people around you. Don't show off what you don't want your opponent to know. Others do not need to know too much about their own affairs. When a secret is not a secret, it becomes an encumbrance. Money, anger, ability, there is no need to talk about, speak moderately, know well, is really wise, but also the greatest sincerity to people. Be kind to the people around you and keep your secret.

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