The more men like you, the more they ignore you.

vipyq95 Every time I re-watch "Please answer 1988", I will be saddened by Dog Huan's missing Te-shan. Gou Huan really cares about virtue and kindness, and cares about her as much as anyone else. Although I always dislike her in my mouth, I always think of her in my heart. Every time a group of people get together, the first person to find and observe the change of virtue's mood and face is always Dog Huan, but unlike Aze's directness, Gou Huan's mind for virtue has always been hidden behind people. So for a long time before, I couldn't understand why Gou Huan was so fond of Deshan, why should he watch her with someone else. Later, after watching it over and over again, I gradually understood him. People who care and care very much are right in front of their eyes but dare not express their love. Sometimes it is not because they do not like enough, but it is precisely because they like and care too much that they are indecisive and hesitant. I'm afraid I won't be a lover if I go further, and I can't be a friend if I take a step back. No matter what the other party is, they all feel that they are not good enough to deserve her, can not give her the happiness she wants, and are afraid that she will be aggrieved if she follows her. So no matter how much you like it, you don't dare to get too close. Between swaying back and forth, fate is so missed. Love is like a kind of metaphysics, which can not stand too much twists and turns and waiting. we like to talk about the future and the future, but the reality is that people walk cool and say goodbye for years, never to be seen again. The sea of people is surging, and once some people turn around, they will last a lifetime. Hugo once said that true love is brave in girls and timid in boys. As a result, there are a lot of regrettable scenes in which "love wants to touch and withdraw from the hand". In fact, there is no difference between letting nature take its course and taking the initiative, but in love, God always prefers brave people. Not long ago, a boy left a message backstage saying that he had been in love with a girl for a long time, but he couldn't decide whether to express his love or not. He described to me all kinds of good things about girls: She is beautiful, and there are many boys chasing her from school to work. She has a good personality. In the past, she was liked by her classmates and teachers at school, but now she is in the company and gets along with her colleagues. Her family is also well-off, and her parents are both college teachers and scholarly families. On the other hand, as for himself, his family is average, his appearance is average, his work is average, and he does not seem to have any advantages in getting up to the table. He said: "knowing that I am not good enough for her, I should not have superfluous fantasies about her, but I really like her so much that my family wants to introduce me to a blind date, and I push it all. Am I getting too far ahead of myself? " I thought about it and replied: "when you like someone, that kind of admiration will give gold to each other, but similar people will attract each other. I think you can take a serious look at yourself. You must also be a very good person, and maybe in the eyes of that girl, you are also a boy she thinks is out of reach." Like a person, people's first reaction is mostly inferiority complex, like flowers as low as dust, while the other side is the sun high above, shining, out of reach. But in fact, we are all ordinary people, with our own obscurity and cunning. Instead of missing the right person because of timidity and inferiority, be brave, break through the shackles of self-awareness, and strive boldly for your own happiness. Love this thing, the process is more important than the result, as long as the heart to participate, even if the failure is meaningful. No matter life or love, hesitation will lead to defeat, and initiative will give you a chance. The reason for writing this article is also because I received the follow-up to the above story. They were together, and the boy confessed on his own initiative. When I asked him why he suddenly figured it out, he said that he did not want to regret in the future, in part because he had not taken the initiative to fight for it. Do you still remember the line in "Big Fish Begonia": "in this short life, we will all lose in the end. You might as well be bold, love someone, climb a mountain and chase a dream. " Don't say later, don't say you're afraid of failure, don't say you don't feel good enough. After all, some people will never come back after they leave. Waiting and hesitation are the most ruthless killers in the world. And, you know: You are fine, you deserve to be treated gently, and you deserve to be loved. You deserve all the best things in the world, life or love.

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