The two things I regret most in life: being lazy while studying and being pretentious when making money

DJ00123987 There is a topic on Zhihu: "what is the biggest regret in your life when you grow up?" Some people regret not falling in love when they are young, while others regret that they have realized their parents' dreams but lost their own. Among the thousands of answers, the most I see is: regret not studying hard and working hard to make money. A person's life is like a tree, which has its own process when it grows, when it develops, when it blossoms, when it bears fruit and when it withered. At every stage, we all have things we have to experience and face. If you don't work hard at that time, once you miss the growth period, you may never be able to wait for the result. Be lazy while reading After the college entrance examination, a Henan father's monologue became popular. The father's son took the college entrance examination this year and scored 9 points higher than that of an ordinary university. It was originally a good thing for my son to come ashore smoothly. But when he signed up for the volunteer, the father found that his son could not get a good grade in an ordinary university, let alone a good major. The father fell into anxiety, and when he tried to communicate with his son, he found that his son was playing a game. Seeing that his son looked indifferent to what university he went to, the father went back to his room in tears, red eyes, and recorded a video for his son. Facing the camera, he recalled that he had suffered and shed tears because he did not study hard and was not admitted to college. The father was filled with emotion. Farming in the countryside, growing vegetables in the hot sun of more than thirty degrees, the whole clothes were soaked with sweat Winter needs fertilization, no money to buy chemical fertilizer, to the county cart to pull dung as fertilizer. For a long time, he has been hoping that his son can study hard and be admitted to a good university. But every time he urged his son to study, the son would not listen and even replied: "you didn't even go to college, so you don't have any qualifications to ask me to go to college, too." At the end of the video, the father choked up and said, "in the next life, you will be the father and I will be the son." Only those who have been taught a lesson by life really know the meaning of reading. Whether reading is hard or not, it must be bitter, but this kind of suffering is only temporary. If you can't stand this temporary suffering, you will have to endure it for the rest of your life. Recently, on the short video platform, I saw a blogger post such a video. The video shows seven or eight workers sleeping in a dirty and messy dormitory. Through the photos, we can clearly see that the workers sleep on beds made of boards, and the room is disorganized. More ironically, there are two comparative photos of students in class in the video. One shows students sleeping on their desks, and the other shows students bowing their heads under their desks and secretly playing with their mobile phones. The blogger who filmed the video said:'if you don't study hard and still want to be lazy when you go to school, this is probably your place after graduation. If it were not for helplessness, who would want to survive in such an environment? There is a good saying: study hard for a while, do not study hard for a lifetime. If you slack off while reading, you will only get a humble life. Pretentious when making money Some people divide the first half of life into two stages: Ignorant stage, do not understand the importance of reading, choose to be lazy to live a comfortable life Frivolous stage, will be very hypocritical that money is not important, not interested in making money. Zhihu netizens @ Brother Jie Told a story. Brother Jie has a female friend who works as a clerk in a small company. His job is easy, he doesn't earn much, and he has plenty of time. After work, I went to the shop and asked my friends to get together. I had a good time. She has no interest in making money and always thinks that life is more important than work and that she can spend enough money. But then her mother suddenly found out that she had cancer, surgery, chemotherapy, and medication, which cost more than NT $100,000 in the first half of the year. It is not enough for the whole family to build up all their savings, and they owe more than 30,000 to their relatives. There was a lot of rain in the room. on the day her mother was discharged from the hospital, she borrowed a friend's car to pick up her mother. When I went back to return the car, I was not careful and knocked down an old man in his eighties. The old man's children gathered her around the hospital, and she cobbled together 20,000 yuan to pay the medical expenses. Fortunately, the uncle was not seriously hurt, and her family did not misuse her, so in the end, she spent 20,000 yuan. Afterwards, she wrote on moments: "if you earn NT $4,000 a month, you think it's enough to spend, but can you guarantee that you and your loved ones won't get sick or have any accidents all their lives? The ability to resist risks without money is too low, like a fragile broken leaf, you will lose your soul at the slightest move. " Since then, she has worked hard to make money and save money in order to have a sense of security. There are always people who choose to be hypocritical in making money, either thinking that face is the most important, or that it is enough to spend. That's because you haven't really experienced major changes in your life, and when you are in urgent need of money, you can understand how important it is to make good money. Money is the strength for a person to live in the world. It can give you freedom, dignity and sense of security. There is a good saying: "maybe no one in this world can be relied on. Only you can rely on the money you earn to give you the biggest sense of security." Don't be hypocritical when you make money, life will not be gentle to you because you cry, but you can live with boundless scenery through hard work. Nothing less hypocritical, free to make more money, this is the best way of life for adults. Reading and making money are eternal. Some people say that there are two kinds of pain in life: The first kind is called the bitterness of growth, which is active change, hard study, hard struggle and loneliness. The second is called the bitterness of life, which is secular trivia, hard work, sarcasm and harvest. You must always choose one of these two kinds of suffering. If you can't eat the bitterness of reading, you have to eat the bitterness of life; if you eat the bitterness of reading, you can eat less of the bitterness of life. A person's greatest self-discipline is to work hard when it is time to work hard and to bear hardships when it is time to bear hardships. I've seen such a story. Her name is Ah Xiu. She is in her fifties. She is quick with her hands and feet. She is a famous "desperate San Niang" in the vegetable market. When A Xiu was young, he worked as a waitress in a hotel. His daily job was to clean and tidy his room. At that time, what A Xiu wanted was an easy job and a comfortable life. Ah Xiu recalled: "at that time, when I was young, I was afraid of hardship, and I thought the job of a waiter was the most suitable, so I didn't have to.You don't have to be in the sun and rain in public, and you still have a decent income. " In fact, at that time, A Xiu had the opportunity to go out and work hard. Several sisters around her took advantage of the business boom in the 1990s to do business. Some went to Guangdong, some went to Beijing, and some went to Yiwu. The sisters called Ah Xiu together, but A Xiu felt that it was too hard to go out to do business, and she was willing to stay in her hometown because she did not want to endure hardships. Later, when the hotel closed, Ah Xiu went to the mall to work as a teller. He didn't get much salary, but his job was easy. Later, when he got older, the burden on the family became heavy, and the meagre salary was not enough to support the family, so he had to go to the vegetable market to sell vegetables. Unexpectedly, when he was young, A Xiu, who was most afraid of suffering, became the one who could bear hardships the most when he reached middle age. In the early years, some sisters who went out to work hard to do business, some bought shops in other places, and some went back to their hometown to build factories, and each of them lived a good life. A Xiu said: I didn't want to suffer in the past, but now I can't escape at all, and I even have to double the hardships. If I had known that I would live like this, I would have fought hard instead of living my life. Yes, the laws of society are so cruel. When you find it difficult every day now, the next year will be easier. When you feel easy every day now, the next year will be even more difficult. In this life, reading, studying and working hard to make money is the eternal content of life. ▽ Yu Minhong said that growth is a lifetime of hard work, a lifetime of hardship, a lifetime of upward process. You know, the world is a pyramid, the further down, the fiercer the competition, the harder the life. The more you go up, the fewer people, the more options, and the better the view. Not everyone is born at the top of the pyramid, and all the fierceness has to be exchanged for hard work. Only by doing your best to do something valuable and something to look forward to in life, can you deserve a high-end life. To share with my friends.

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