The way adults end a relationship

having dinner with a friend last night, she told me that she had been blocked from her moments by a colleague who had a good relationship. I asked, "is something unpleasant going on?" Friends have a little helplessness: "it is because I have been getting along quite well, so when I found out about this matter, I was very puzzled. How to say, the relationship may still be relatively fragile." She picked her eyebrows and didn't say anything else. The beginning of a relationship is always joyful and pleasant, but many relationships end unexpectedly and unexpectedly. I don't know if you have found that when we grow up, we will face more and more farewell, but also more and more quietly. Later, those who left, all happened quietly, and the long silence became the tacit understanding of loneliness. So in the past, we looked forward to eternity, but now we are more receptive to letting nature take its course, because many people are destined to pass by, appear and leave in life, and the only thing we can do is to accept the arrangement. When the wind rises, the wind stops. Come and go, all in a hurry. Some time ago, Wang Ziwen talked about his ex in the program. She said: "I won't ask again whether he loved me, because the answer is there. Life is too long, life is too difficult, I will not call him a jerk just because he let go of my hand halfway. Because I believe that love really existed in that relationship. " In fact, many feelings are like this, maybe in the end, they are still apart, but it is also true that two flowers bloomed at the beginning. It is not only being together forever is the best ending. We have loved passionately and cared sincerely, and we have met each other. In the TV series "only 30", Gu Jia said: "even if husband and wife break up, they should not bring hatred." The so-called "living to understand" has nothing to do with others, but we will gradually understand that there is bound to be a gap between expectation and reality. We will be happy in order to meet, but also in order to bid farewell to sadness, but also more and more clearly, the past is the past, the present is the present, the future is the future. The days are still long, and it is important to live well in every period of time. In "Fifteen years of waiting for migrant Birds", the author wrote: "Life is like a train. When you get into the station, some people will get on the train, and some people will have to get off. After a journey together, good-bye when it is time to see each other, this is the best blessing to each other. " After meeting each other, we all have something to gain and lose, something to grow up, and that's good. From now on, the landscape will not meet, regardless of whether the old friend is long or short. In the yearning Life, Ren Jialun asked everyone a question and said: "did you have a good relationship when you were young, but because your career was getting better and better, he felt that the distance between you two was getting farther and farther, so he took the initiative to alienate your kind of friends?" He replied: "I also care about the people around me, but I have never expected to keep anyone around me, because it is very difficult." Yes, it is difficult to compete with time to strive for an eternity. In the end, you are often disappointed and annoyed by yourself. So rather than saying that adults end a relationship quietly, it's better to say that we actually complete a person's self-healing during this transitional period. Who you meet, who you meet, who you leave, who you leave, in the end, it is your own spiritual practice. In the past, we were very happy together, but in the future, it may be more suitable for us to walk apart. So you didn't reply to the last message I sent you, and I didn't bother you any more unwittingly; so there is no date for the next appointment, I don't wait, and you won't choose to go back. And then from then on we are strangers, no longer contact. Think again, this growth is long and boundless, companionship after a journey of this matter, has been worthy of long-term gratitude. Now that we are no longer on our way, wish us a smooth future when the future is no longer related, and good luck in the years when we are no longer with each other. The most recent song played in a loop is Fuyi's Book of yesterday, which sings in the lyrics: Do you know that this hundred-year-old lover can only be accompanied halfway. You are fascinated by the storm and the twilight of the twilight. Return the events of yesterday to the place of joy. We all need to cross by ourselves. When adults end a relationship, they often stop throwing ground and refusing like children, or go all the way to tell each other that I'm leaving you. Silence is a way we must all get used to and accept. But as long as we all strive for a better direction, to live. It doesn't matter whether we see it or not in the future. The origin dies, and for the rest of my life, I cherish the fate without climbing. Return the events of yesterday to the place of joy. We all need to cross by ourselves after all. Good night. Have a nice dream.

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