There is a kind of awakening called Cheng Quan himself.
Pin your hopes on others, all the good is just a mirage.
there is a passage on the Internet that describes middle-aged people as follows: Deep down, I am still a 16-year-old child who needs to be taken care of. I wish someone would hold me in my arms. But the parents are old, the children are old, and their lovers are cold. No one will hold me again until I die. In the past, I naively thought that there were still many people around me to rely on. Later, it was found that when they were prosperous, many people would come to add icing on the cake, and when they were down and down, they would all run away. It turns out that the longest companion in this life is not the parents, not the lover, but himself. You have to be able to do it. All our lives, we are looking for some kind of sense of security, so we live beside our marriage or our children. But in fact, no one wants to vouch for your life but yourself. Since Zhang Youyi and Xu Zhimo got married, Xu Zhimo has been very indifferent to her, always laughing at her as a "country bumpkin." Later, Zhang Youyi was pregnant with his child, but Xu Zhimo was passionately in love with Lin Huiyin and was determined to divorce. Zhang Youyi asked tearfully, "what about the baby in my belly after the divorce?" Xu Zhimo said, "get rid of it." "I heard that someone died of an abortion." "there are still people who die by train, but people still take trains." Xu Zhimo said coldly. After Zhang Youyi gave birth, Xu Zhimo handed over a divorce agreement, "sign it quickly. I'm going to pursue my soul mate. It's too late to sign it." Zhang Youyi was so desperate that she signed her name and left without looking back. She cheered up and tore off the label "Xu Zhimo's abandoned wife". He taught himself German, went to university for further study, and finally made a great career and became Xu Zhimo's unreachable woman. When you are born a human being, no matter who you form a family with, don't forget your skills. When you have the ability to make money, you can win the respect of your partner. Strong and independent, will always be the highest umbrella. A man has to fulfill himself. Share a story: Su Dongpo and his good friend Zen Master Foyin visited Lingyin Temple together. Su Dongpo felt very strange when he saw the Guanyin Bodhisattva hanging a rosary in his hand. He asked Buddha Yin, the Zen master: The world is chanting the name of Guanyin Bodhisattva, hoping to get her protection. Why does she also have a rosary on her hand? whose name does she read? Zen Master Foyin said: "I also read Guanyin Bodhisattva." Su Dongpo was even more puzzled and asked: "Why does Avalokitesvara Bodhisattva miss himself?" Master Foyin explained that because she knows better than the rest of the world, it is better to ask for help than to ask for yourself, and it is better to rely on others than to rely on yourself. Always thinking about relying on others is not the best policy. No one will always be there for you unconditionally. When your parents get older day by day, they will eventually leave you; your relatives will have to start a family and will not be around you all the time; your friends have limited ability to help you every time. The decision on what kind of life you can live is always in your own hands. A good life is always achieved by yourself. Love yourself in your own name Life is your own, place your hopes on others, and all the good things are just a mirage. If you are strong and love yourself well, you can live without looking at other people's faces, do not add traffic to yourself, and do not invite disgust to others. You should love yourself in your own name. Zang Jianhe, the dumpling queen, came from a poor peasant family and dropped out of school to become a nurse at the age of 15. At the age of 22, she married a prominent family doctor. I thought I would get rid of poverty, but my husband married another wife. At that time, her mother-in-law told her that if she swallowed the anger and stayed, she would have enough food and clothing for the rest of her life. Zang Jianhe, with a strong character, resolutely left and went to Hong Kong with his two daughters. If you are not familiar with the land, you can only start from low. Go to the teahouse to wash dishes and toilets during the day, and work as a nurse in the hospital at night, sleeping two or three hours a day. Once, a friend came to visit her and repeatedly praised her craftsmanship: "you can sell your dumplings on the street!" She took the joke seriously and pushed the cart to the street to sell dumplings every day. Soon, it attracted a large number of customers, but also received investment, and the business was booming. Eventually, Wanchai Ferry Pier, which she founded, became the number one brand of frozen food in Hong Kong. Put hope on others, you have to see other people's face, humble life, such as walking on thin ice, sense of security is very little. Do not cling to others, although hard, but really secure and at ease. Instead of being subdued in front of others and being called hypocritical, it is better to stop complaining and save yourself. Yu Hua said: "No road in the world is repeated, and no life can be replaced. Everyone is experiencing a life of their own. " Life is a single-handed battle, we need to carry our own guns and face any suffering. In life, there will be sour and sweet, light and shadow, sunshine and rain. I hope we have the courage to play with it. To share with you. Mr. Watanjun, come on. Released by authorization.
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